Please any advise needed. My sir is not interested in reading to learn more however I am an avid reader and I think it makes my hubbi (new Dom) insecure but how else are we to learn? I feel like I am domming when I suggest readings and the are not easily recieved. However Ike earlier posts I have kind of thrown this on my husband when I realizedy fantasies had a name BDSM. he is good with it execpt me trying tO tell him what to do.... But we can't learn, as new newbies, without reading... So what should I do??? He a soluey detests reading and he has always been. Athrally dom. Do I just shut up until he feels comfortable With this huge shift in paradigm in our marriage?