Hey I live in a really small town and was just wondering how I would go about finding alternative groups? I can't find anything online and none of my friends know of any. Is there a certain way they are advertised? Are there other places I can look besides on the net? I've been lurking a little and the people on here all seem pretty cool. But I want to meet people like you in real life! It also doesn't help that I am extremely socially awkward as well... I'm new to the bdsm community but not new to bdsm. I would love to attend a munch (is that what it's called?) But have no idea how to find one. Please help....?