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This should probably be a section in the Newcomers section. The wand is very powerful and it can do things you want, and don't want. Here are some suggestions, for you and for Jack.
Always use lubrication with the wand. It really makes a difference.
Don't use it on high, unless pain and numbness is desired, or if the sub is an old pro that needs that much stimulation.
Don't use/keep it directly on the clitoris except maybe for short term torture... no where to go from there.
On new subs, it's best to use it in an "on-off" mode. not with power but application.
While your inserting your fingers or dildo in her, apply then take it off for a second. You should practice cupping the ball in the palm of your hand, holding it with your thumb and two outer fingers, leaving the two middles to act as a vibrating insertable (of sorts). As you go in, the head will press against her mound and clit, but your fingers will be vibrating all the time.
Be careful about putting the wand in her vagina. It's different than other battery operated units and once it connects to her other bones (like pelvic) the vibration is no longer central to the area you are working with. She'll feel it in her teeth.
The wand is best used in conjunction with other types of stimulation, either together, or one after the other, but it's best in short bursts of a couple of minutes to just under 10 depending on the sensitivity of the sub. They're all different and sensitivities vary greatly (and change over time). And clitoral orgasms by themselves are only part of the program. I believe that's where a lot of people go wrong and go insensitive over time. There's more than clitoral orgasms.
I myself wouldn't be in to much of a hurry to overstimulate my sub, but Doms come in all flavors. Personally, I am hoping that your Dom is mature enough to understand where your sensitivity levels and tolerances are and the difference between good pain and bad pain, between hurt and harm. Like I said in the beginning the wand is not always a toy. It depends on who's giving and who's receiving.
There's more, but this has already gotten to long.
Hope it helps. I already know it doesn't fit everyone.
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