Hollow Strap-Ons! or the like.

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by sexfiends, Apr 18, 2011.

  1. sexfiends

    sexfiends New Member

    So me and my wife's anniversary is coming up. I have a rather small penis and she has often mentioned an interest in trying out a large hollow dildo. I have said no in the past, mostly because of personal insecurities; however, I have overcome those insecurities and now I want to surprise her with one for our anniversary. I am going to blindfold her, and tie her up, then surprise her with the thing and talk Spanish to her and pretend to be a hot Spaniard. She digs that, and now, it will be awesome.

    So my reason for posting in the forum is this. There are a million and a half kinds of dildos and harnesses out there. I was hoping someone could shed some light on what the good ones are. Here is what I am looking for: 1) good leather harness that is well adjustable and comfortable, 2) a soft, but firm dildo that is hollow, or, a dildo that isnt but that the harness allows my penis and balls to protrude under it (DP would rock) 3) that the dildo be between 7"-8" in lenght and 11/2"-21/2" in diameter.
    As we have never used dildo's (yeah I know, what's wrong with us right?? :), some advice on material would also be beneficial. I heard the skin like ones are too hard to clean, and the cheap rubber ones are painful. I heard silicone is great through. Any confirmation?

    I am looking for high-end toys and leather, nothing cheap. (I plan on using it often)
    Any help any one of you guys could give me would be wonderful.

    Thank you so much for taking time out of your days to respond. You all have a great sexcapade!!
    Thanks,
    sexfiends
     
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  2. Smallest

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    Silicone is great, but I haven't tried otherwise.
    I'll look around and see if I could find anything for you. But even some google searching, for brands/ideas to get us started would be good.

    Also, good on you for doing this for her
     
  3. sexfiends

    sexfiends New Member

    Thanks :) let me know if you find anything.

    The problem I am having is that there are too many options. And all I have been able to find in google is pictures of items, and their descriptions. But without ever having actually put one on or felt them, its hard to tell what's good. That's why I was hoping that someone who owned one for similar purposes could advice me on what's worked for them.

    Any advice would rock and anything you find with your searches would be great.

    These look cheaply made: http://www.bondagefetishstore.com/c/dildo_harnesses.html

    This one looks promising: http://www.stockroom.com/Mens-Dildo-Harness-P321.aspx

    These look like they might work:http://www.leatherbeaten.com/Harnesses.html

    Just look at all these :/: http://www.stockroom.com/Strap-ons--Dildos-Harnesses-C202.aspx

    And one more: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/sp-vac-u-lock-large-realistic-dong-2058.aspx

    I have been looking, diligently. As you can see, the problem is too many choices to find what's best.

    I am looking for the best harness and the best dildo, regardless of price. Thank you!
     
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  4. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

  5. sexfiends

    sexfiends New Member

    Thank you for responding Sebastian. I do like that. The only issue I see with it is that it wont allow for DP. I was really hoping that you guys would know about one that would. Will definitely keep this one in mind though. Thanks guys!
     
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  6. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Oh, and silicone is definitely the best material unless she's allergic or something like that. It's easiest to clean (a lot of silicone toys can be washed in a dishwasher, for example). Rubber isn't too bad though.
     
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  10. sexfiends

    sexfiends New Member

    thank you guys so much for all your help. That orion harness looks amazing and I think I will order that one with a nice silicone dildo. I think she will love it. You guys were great, thank you so much for coming through for me. if i can help you all with anything, please let me know.
    Once again, thank you.
    sexfiends
     
  11. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Glad to help. Tell us what she thinks
     

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