Hi, we're new here.

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Spankee, Jun 18, 2012.

  1. Spankee

    Spankee New Member

    I say we...my wife...openlegged is new to Bondage and open to domination.
    But she is eager and willing to consider.

    She is rather shy to admitting this and has mixed feelings towards it.

    One thing... She isn't into pain...

    So suggest some things she can try... You can use and abuse her...and we might report back with our findings.
  2. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Is she into verbal degradation? Most basically, you could call her 'whore,' 'slut,' 'bitch,' etc, and then add onto those, make them more specific to her, converse with her during play using them (as simple as 'oh, do you like that, whore?') and so on.

    Likewise, what about physical torture that isn't pain? A repeated sensation like tapping a body part, or something like water torture, or even tickle torture. Or being tied uncomfortably but not painfully so, or any continuation of those.

    You could order her to just sit and kneel. She'd get bored, but that's the point. Don't let her move, punish or discipline her if she does (punish being something she really doesn't like, discipline being something she does like, eg spanking for people who do like spanking). Or you could try stress positions.

    Since she has mixed feelings, I'd have a long talk with her before you tried anything.

    Also, you've given us pretty broad criteria for things to try, so it would help if you could tell us more about you two.
  3. Spankee

    Spankee New Member

    Thanks smallest.

    It feels a positive move for us both to try something new in our sex lives.

    She is my whore. She likes licking my arse until I tell her to suck my cock. She's begging for me to tie her up and force her to cum.

    We know what we want and shell get it. I like the idea of others thinking of her slutty ways.

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