we are a mid 30s couple getting interested in bdsm we are both a bit unsure how to start and getting going any tips would be a great help cheers
Would love to help but kinda new myself and on top of that, don't remember how we started. I will say this though, we got interested in it by rope bondage and rape fantasy in where I, the husband, takes full control of the wife in every possible way. So, for others to help you out in this website, why don't you list some things you couple may be interested in. What turns you guys on, why interested.
step one. have a discussion about what you like and dislike. Try those things step two. ??? step three. Profit no, seriously. Its really easy. You start small. Are you into spanking? Well throw in some spanking. Getting into the lifestyle is like making a cake. Eventually you hope its going to be amazing looking, but you need to start with a very solid base.
