Hi, I'm new and wanted to say hi

ranssub87 · Nov 18, 2010

Thanks for the welcome everybody.

I have set up a new username as I realised I had very stupidly set up my account in the name I use on every single forum. So I was babyk and am now ranssub87

Very excited right now as my husband is on his way home

TerribleT · Nov 19, 2010

Hope it all went well OP.
Just a thought. If you are interested in bondage but not ready (for whatever reason), police handcuffs are the safest, quickest and easiest to get used to. No fumbling with straps or ropes and they have evolved over ~150 years to be the best restraint available. And a turn of the key and they're off.
Good luck.

sebastian · Nov 19, 2010

Terrible: Very good advice, although a few comments are in order
1) Use real professional handcuffs. The crap ones they sell at Hot Topic are liable to hurt the sub because they're not really made to be used.
2) Handcuffs are best used for short periods. They can really start to chafe if left on for long periods
3) Make sure you double lock them. Otherwise they can tighten on their own and cramp circulation a good deal.
4) Always keep a spare key somewhere accessible where you won't lose it.

ranssub87 · Nov 19, 2010

Thanks for the support guys. We might look into them.

With regards to starting on bondage, I was thinking of asking him to tie my legs first and leave my arms free. Then if it gets too much I can release myself if necessary. What do you think?

Ranssub

sebastian · Nov 19, 2010

Ran, that is a reasonable place to start. If the idea of being tied up makes you feel a little anxious, just tying your ankles is a good way to get your feet wet, as it were. Another option would be to tie your hands in front of you with a bow knot so that you know that you can release your hands simply by tugging on the knot with your teeth. Or you have him tie your hands and leave the ends of the rope in your hands so you can free yourself just by letting go of the rope. A couple weeks ago I played with a boy I'd never worked with before. He was willing to be tied up but requested that I leave one hand free. What I finally did was tie his legs and one arm, and then tied the other arm in a way that allowed him to free himself simply by letting go of the rope. He found that a sufficient precaution so that we were able to play for about 45 minutes before I decided to untie him.

Huaztek89 · Dec 16, 2010

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I'm Really new to the forum I just joined yesterday and whas wondering if i could get any help on how to look up stuff on the forum and thread stuff, this is all new to me. So if there is anybody that would help me please. i would appreciate it!

L8NightQ · Dec 16, 2010

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