Imperfection
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Name's Imperfection, some call me Imp. I'm tryin' to set up my own independent life now. I've had a steady relationship with my GF for almost two years now. We have a daughter who's almost a year old now! Things are going really well! But... I want them to go better! That's why I'm here! I want to add another level to my relationship with my GF.
Throughout my life, I've been quiet, reserved, and I always go out of my way to make things easier for the select-few people that I really care about in my life. I don't complain, whine, or anything of the sort; When something needs to be done I get up 'n do it while others will sit 'n think about the amount of effort that needs to be applied, etc. Even when they're tasks that I really don't want to do.
Anyways, I have this theory based upon my almost nil-experience that I've a switch-type and that my GF is a sub-type. While growing up I've always had fantasies in having complete control of my woman. But I've molded myself into the nice-guy. I have the fuckin' collar in front of me as I'm typing this... I want to put it on my GF and tell her what I want her to do. I want to tell her what to address me by. I want to teach her what to do and how to do it. BUT I SECOND-GUESS MYSELF ALL THE DAMNED TIME!! I'll start talking and in my first sentence "uhh..." comes out! Then I'll think of some other way for the task to be done. Or I'll think that I didn't plan things out enough. Then I'll think about how pathetic I must look while trying to give direction. Needless to say, I'm fumbling all over the place.
I think I'm typing all of this out because I'm hoping to hear stories from others who might have started out in a similar situation and have progressed through it, and now find themselves in a more comfortable and dominating position.
Any help, insight, comments at all will be greatly appreciated. Even if it seems like a kick in the balls response!
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My bullshit aside, I see that your forums are swamped with similar random posts like mine. I'm sure you're getting a ton of one-time posters. I've had some experience with forum moderation and just as a quick suggestion ... Maybe try creating ranks for the forum users. So lower ranks have to post in particular forum sections while they can only read in others. i.e. ...
General BDSM Discussions
[Rank 4-9]
Post..
Reply..
Post...
[Rank 0-3]
Post...
^ Exact same post worded differently...
^ Exact same post worded differently...
Attempt to reply... a day later on page 5 because of other similar posts.
At least this way the regulars who read/post/comment etc don't feel berated as much with newbile comments in a forum section of particular interest to them.
/end ... I type a lot after a few drinks, sorry >.>
Name's Imperfection, some call me Imp. I'm tryin' to set up my own independent life now. I've had a steady relationship with my GF for almost two years now. We have a daughter who's almost a year old now! Things are going really well! But... I want them to go better! That's why I'm here! I want to add another level to my relationship with my GF.
Throughout my life, I've been quiet, reserved, and I always go out of my way to make things easier for the select-few people that I really care about in my life. I don't complain, whine, or anything of the sort; When something needs to be done I get up 'n do it while others will sit 'n think about the amount of effort that needs to be applied, etc. Even when they're tasks that I really don't want to do.
Anyways, I have this theory based upon my almost nil-experience that I've a switch-type and that my GF is a sub-type. While growing up I've always had fantasies in having complete control of my woman. But I've molded myself into the nice-guy. I have the fuckin' collar in front of me as I'm typing this... I want to put it on my GF and tell her what I want her to do. I want to tell her what to address me by. I want to teach her what to do and how to do it. BUT I SECOND-GUESS MYSELF ALL THE DAMNED TIME!! I'll start talking and in my first sentence "uhh..." comes out! Then I'll think of some other way for the task to be done. Or I'll think that I didn't plan things out enough. Then I'll think about how pathetic I must look while trying to give direction. Needless to say, I'm fumbling all over the place.
I think I'm typing all of this out because I'm hoping to hear stories from others who might have started out in a similar situation and have progressed through it, and now find themselves in a more comfortable and dominating position.
Any help, insight, comments at all will be greatly appreciated. Even if it seems like a kick in the balls response!
==
My bullshit aside, I see that your forums are swamped with similar random posts like mine. I'm sure you're getting a ton of one-time posters. I've had some experience with forum moderation and just as a quick suggestion ... Maybe try creating ranks for the forum users. So lower ranks have to post in particular forum sections while they can only read in others. i.e. ...
General BDSM Discussions
[Rank 4-9]
Post..
Reply..
Post...
[Rank 0-3]
Post...
^ Exact same post worded differently...
^ Exact same post worded differently...
Attempt to reply... a day later on page 5 because of other similar posts.
At least this way the regulars who read/post/comment etc don't feel berated as much with newbile comments in a forum section of particular interest to them.
/end ... I type a lot after a few drinks, sorry >.>
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