help my gf open up

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by whateverheather, Dec 29, 2012.

  1. whateverheather

    whateverheather New Member

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    my gf bizzie (nick for elizabeth) has trust issues and difficulty opening up to people. please help her at [removed]. ask whatever you want.
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  2. Smallest

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    Giving away contact info doesn't seem like a great way to gain trust.
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  3. Enusta30

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    I don't understand how we could possibly help her if she has problems opening up. If she is your girlfriend, you should be the one talking to her. She isn't going to trust the words of a stranger to help her, I can almost guarantee that. And Smallest is right, giving away her contact info is definitely not a good way to show her that her limited trust in you is a good thing. If anything, by you doing this, you might of just pushed her farther away.

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    What on Earth were you thinking by publishing her contact details?
  5. Smallest

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    I'm going to edit it out before the link attracts creeps/spammers to her. If she wants, it can be edited back in.

    I am tempted to assume this is either a troll posting a random link or some friend of the girl's trying to make a joke, but I have to act like our limited information is true, just in case.

    If you want her to open up, you should be talking to her and asking questions. If she won't answer them for you, she won't like a barrage of either well-meaning people or creeps asking her what I know would end up being sexual questions all over a public ask with her real name on it.

    If you did this without her knowledge, I think you should throw the idea of her trusting you out the window.

    Last, if you haven't tried to introduce whatever it is you wanted to to her and were relying on one of us to, just grow up.
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  6. Frlskydingo

    Frlskydingo New Member

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    successful troll is successful.

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