Not really sure how it lead to this. My ex girlfriend or I have ever been into this stuff. When a longtime friend of the family was here for work, and staying with us. Sensed something was weird, he seemed to friendly with her from day one, and she said he was like her uncle. Everything slowly changed the night he asked if he could kiss her if she would let him and she did. He was gonna show me the ropes and guide me. How did I fall for this, anything he asked of me I went out of my way to help.