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Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by bdsmplaygrl, May 15, 2012.

  1. bdsmplaygrl

    bdsmplaygrl New Member


    In a recent post, I wrote that I had a rather large mouth, and my ball gag just want doing the trick...

    My mistress is having to use a stuff gag, which given our propensity for a specific kind of play is dangerous. Can someone PLEASE point me to the direction of where to find an EXTRA large ball gag to shut me up... But keep me safe.


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  2. Martello

    Martello Member

    I'm going to suggest the black one. I've had subs experience reactions to the red ball.


    Also, these can be helpful.

    I don't know your Mistress but if either of you have any safety concerns involving you not being able to speak or safe word; I recommend holding a small bell that you can drop when you're otherwise unable to safe word.
    Last edited: May 15, 2012
  3. GTG123

    GTG123 Active Member

    I don't believe that stuffing one's mouth with a pair of socks/panties before taping it shut is dangerous unless they are very little and can be swallowed.
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  4. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    GTG: Stuff gags ARE dangerous, for a number of reasons. Usually people use things like socks or underwear. Some are small enough to be swallowed and choke on. Some expand dangerously as they absorb the sub's saliva. Some may simply make mouth breathing very difficult. And in some cases, they can trigger vomiting, which, since the vomit can't be expelled, winds up being aspirated and causing choking. When burglars rob houses, tying up the occupant and using a stuff gag is one of the more common ways the crime turns into murder.

    If you're going to use a stuff gag, make sure you don't leave the sub unattended, and make sure the sub has a way to either remove the gag or signal that it needs to come out immediately. Better yet, use a purpose-made gag that can't be swallowed or trigger a gag reflex.

    Bondage is the most dangerous branch of BDSM. There are all sorts of ways that it can go wrong. Bondage doms have an obligation to learn the safety basics of any method they intend to use. Although you might see stuff gags used in porn, remember that in any bondage shoot, there are always several people present who can spot that the sub is in distress (the dom, the guy who actually did the bondage, and the camera man, at a minimum, and possibly the director, the lighting guy, and others). So don't assume that what you've seen in a porn shoot is necessarily safe as you see it in the clip. You rarely see the safety efforts.
    Last edited: May 20, 2012
  5. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    bdsmplaygirl, Sebby's right, avoid stuff gags and don't use them unattended.

    (I know you knew they were dangerous, but with a vote that they're not, I really wanted to enforce that).
    Last edited: May 20, 2012
  6. RopeRanger

    RopeRanger Member

    Stuff gags tend to engage the gag reflex, they usually are multi-part, and they typically are tied in place. The primary danger is asphyxiation due to vomotious blocking the airway. You are much better off looking for larger gags that do not intrude into the airway, induce the gag reflex and are quick to release. I've made large gags using kong toys that have worked quite well

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