hard limits

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  1. thinmint7

    thinmint7 Member



    Just curious to know some of your guys hard limits/soft limits.
     
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  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member



    I think mine are pretty typical for a gay kinkster: no drugs, no women, no children, no scat, no blood, no unsafe sex. I also won't do breath play or fisting, which is a little less common, I think.
     
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  3. Smallest

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    Mine are pretty simple. For reasons (I'm longwinded), here are also my soft limits and things I won't do.

    Hard limits (no, never): Scat, the involvement of anyone that does not/can not give consent*, objectively dangerous play**, racial fetishism

    Soft limits (with the right practice/partner/timing I'd do it): Watersports, pegging, multiple partners, blood, probably other things.

    Not quite limits but things I have no interest in trying, ever: Pregnancy/lactation fetish play, foot fetish play, glory hole, cuck/bull/hotwife play, and probably a lot more things.

    * This includes underage, animals, and random people in the general public
    ** I know this is why sometimes 'safe' in SSC is debated and whatnot. By this I refer to play without safety precautions, or play which can and most likely will lead to permanent bodily harm- for example, blood play usually falls into this category
     
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  4. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member



    Yeah, no violation of consent is important--pretty much goes without saying.
     
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  5. Smallest

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    Yes, and it's easier than saying underage, bestiality, public play, and all the other specific things that some people consider kinky that, well, aren't.
     
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  6. aussierimmer

    aussierimmer New Member



    No drugs, no drunks, nothing the other partner does not want, not into blood games (knives etc), extreme violence or harm to other partner
     
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  7. jmianna

    jmianna Member



    Keep :)
     
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  8. luisaYa

    luisaYa Active Member



    extreme violence or harm to other partner
     
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  9. viadelmare

    viadelmare Active Member



    We no want no coke, no heroin
    No hasch-hasch, no amfetamin
     
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  10. aughcer

    aughcer Member



    Mine hard limits are: anal play, crossdressing, serious cbt.

    Soft limits are: ballkicking, hard and long bondage.
     
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  11. MissVeroniKa

    MissVeroniKa New Member



    My hard limits are changing frequently. I thought needles, mummification, and flogging were limits, but turns out I like them all after giving them a try.

    My limits change with experience, and I've found my hard limits are usually based in fear.

    Current hard limits: Scat, beastiality, cutting beyond a few layers of skin, hook suspension.
    Soft limits: anal, bondage, cunt torture.
     
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  12. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member



    That's a good point about limits. They often change and evolve as we become more experienced. I used to think that pup play was pretty weird and not something I would ever do. Now, I get why it's hot, and my slave and I have dabbled in it.
     
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  13. Scatandfart

    Scatandfart New Member



    I had scat as my hard limit before. But after I was drunk and tried it with girlfriend I found out that I love it. Hard limits: no children, no vomit, no blood torture, no pretty little animals / no animals at all, no pregnant
     
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  14. Xion

    Xion Active Member



    extreme violence or harm to other partner
     
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  15. scorpion11

    scorpion11 Active Member



    good explained
     
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