Hard limits

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by sillylittlepet, Jun 6, 2010.

  1. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member

    Just out of curiosity, what are everyone's hard limits?

    for me its scat, blood, needles, and extreme torture/pain

  2. Scat, blood, needles, extreme pain, breath play and inserting toys into the penis hole.

    Those are my hard limits, but there is a lot I haven't tried yet.
  3. Darktruth

    Darktruth Member

    Pretty much the same. :D

    I don’t know about any other man we have on the board…but my balls shrunk to the size of raisins and are now located in my chest somewhere after the thought of that. I sound like an eleven-year-old boy again as well!!!:eek::(

    Good choice cuffy.
  4. SubAnna

    SubAnna Member

    Hahaha, I hope you recovered DT. Im sure some ppl. are into cathether play :eek:

    Hmm.. Im still too inexperienced to say for sure I think.

    But for very hard limits. Def. scat, blood, long term/very restricted caging/bondage or bondage in very small and dark places (im slightly claustrophobic), severe humiliation, fisting, extreme pain and breathplay/other dangerous things.
    Also piercing/tattoing/branding or anything else that leaves permanent marks.
    A few role playing things would also be pretty hardcore limits for me - baby/daddy/diaper stuff for instance.

    And then there are things that would make me uncomfortable but I might be willing to try them with a safeword. This could be roleplaying rape.

    In terms of relationships I think a very controlling master/slave 24/7 thing would be a bit too much..
    Sexually I would also be against swapping partners, orgies, etc. Im more of a one-on-one/monogamous type of person, boring as this may sound :)
  5. master jey

    master jey Moderator

    i think it's only scat :D
    and i love inserting stuff in my cock :)
  6. Sial'tes

    Sial'tes New Member

    * Burns/Abrasions
    * Electrical anything
    * Scat
    * Suffocation
    * Catheters

    Everything else is pretty much free game.

  7. Needles, blood, extreme pain, shit, vomit...

  8. Anything that would leave permanent marks is a no no for me.

    inserting things into my cock is a hard limit for me, but I told Mistress she can try a catheder once.
  9. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member

    how interesting!! Most of us seem to have similar hard limits

    Robert Mapplethorpe (famous photographer) has an amazing picture of man sticking his pinky into his urethra

    sorry I couldnt make this image any smaller

    maybe we should have a soft limit thread...
  10. SubAnna

    SubAnna Member

    SLP - DarkTruth is going to like cringe. Lol.
    But yes, I think soft limits are actually a lot more varied.. I mean the "needles, blood, permanent marks, scat" thing seems more or less the same for everybody..
  11. master jey

    master jey Moderator

    seems painful...
  12. Darktruth

    Darktruth Member

    You know me well. Just so everyone knows my balls were starting to descend back to where they’re meant to be…after that they’re somewhere in my chest again. :(

    I think a soft limits thread would be a good idea as well. :D

    Seems??? It only "seems" painful to you? :eek: That is another planet of pain in my books. I know my pain threshold is probably the lowest here but fuck me that looks unbelievably painful.

    I’m actually squirming about on my chair with my legs crossed. How the fuck does a picture have such an effect on me? :eek:
  13. doloroso

    doloroso New Member

    Scat, permanent marks, suffocation (asphyxiation).
    But than, it is easy for dom to draw hard borders :)
  14. Darktruth

    Darktruth Member

    I agree. If we don't want to do something then we don't do it. :D
  15. master jey

    master jey Moderator

    well it always happens have you noticed that when maybe in movies men see another man kicked in the balls they always cross their legs and hold their own balls
    we are kinda lucky :D

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