I'm new. Created the account just for someone to try and help me answer this situation that I have. I'm engaged to be married next year. I'm into bdsm as well... its hard to explain as space and money aren't something available to me. But my fiancee is into it as a lifestyle. Well, he wants to have me as a wife and then have a slave who he has never met before and is exactly like me other than the fact that she will do anything he says without question. I won't because I am more of a switch than anything. I refuse to be a doormat or a piece of property. I'm in threat of losing my fiancee and wedding because of this. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can handle this situation. I would greatly appriacate anything. I don't want to lose my fiancee, but I don't want to lose myself or him later on because of this slave. Please help me. Thanks.