Long story short, I roleplay online eneded up turning my character into a uber masochistic sex addict- in her case, no holds barred, spent time in the medical ward a couple of times. For the record, well beyond *anything* I would even consider in real life. Learned a few things about myself but kinda curious as to how one can figure out sub or dom without doing anything- I'm firm in my celabacy and not about to break that anytime soon. In general i'm thinking sub, kinda joked around with 'Brianan's' in character mistriss out of character (the person behind the character) but I know I have too much fight off the bat and I don't really like taking control of things. That being said, I enjoy putting my characters through the ringer which says sadist to me, something that even slightly related to a dominant personality.