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My Boyfriend. has recently told me that he is rather quite submissive, and that they would like me to try and be dominate with them. I'v never been dominate with anyone before, so this will be quite a big learning curve, I have done alot of research online (I know this does not make a '' good dominate '' that comes with alot of experience, Respect, and also learning from others more experienced then yourself. Now one thing my boyfriend has told me, is that he thinks im a ' push over ' (Basicly too nice) which i believe may benefit me when being dominate rather then being a down-point (A good dominate has to Have a good personality and respect, understanding, Self-control, listens to there sub's (to help fill there needs/wants/desires) be open/honest with communication and not come across as to aggressive. (Sometimes a gentle wispier in the tear could be more effective then shouting and being forceful) And also understanding that sometimes because they say '' No '' Does not mean there being bad, but the fact that they could be quite uncomfortable with what you are suggesting they do.
Now my introduction has finished , Onto the part where i was looking for some advice (Threats) I know for fact my Sub will react well if i use Humiliating threats, rather then embarrassing ones, so i have creatively come up with quite a few and have a good mindset on how to use them, But i was just wondering how more experienced Dom's would use threats? what threats would they use (Obviously my Subs would want me to carryout these threats if they have miss behaved them selfs!) Im not just talking about Psychical threats either, I'd like some suggestions, for more thoughtful/mindful threats. (and lets face it you can threaten your sub without being psychical all the time, its all about respect imo, and i respect my partner greatly)
Thankyouu
Now my introduction has finished , Onto the part where i was looking for some advice (Threats) I know for fact my Sub will react well if i use Humiliating threats, rather then embarrassing ones, so i have creatively come up with quite a few and have a good mindset on how to use them, But i was just wondering how more experienced Dom's would use threats? what threats would they use (Obviously my Subs would want me to carryout these threats if they have miss behaved them selfs!) Im not just talking about Psychical threats either, I'd like some suggestions, for more thoughtful/mindful threats. (and lets face it you can threaten your sub without being psychical all the time, its all about respect imo, and i respect my partner greatly)
Thankyouu
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