Ok so I've been gone a while what with school holidays but I'm back and with a new problem. My fella has been really trying lately and has come along really well. He is really open to trying things and says he will do whatever to make me happy. We have slowly been stepping things up, he is still not 100% about things and always asks after sex if I'm ok but I keep trying to reassure him that if I haven't complained at the time then not to worry. Well my one hiccup came last night. I purposely brought a slightly smaller dildo than I would normally use alone so that if it got carried away he wouldn't hurt me. However, being a man, always wants to shove the biggest one I have in there lol. Anyway, back on track. Whilst caught up in the moment he had switched from reasonable sized to BIG (the kind you need lube for) but he didn't use any and I didn't care but when we were done a while later he is freaked out coz he has blood on him. Now it was in semi dark and I have black sheets so I didn't notice at the time. I told him it was ok and I'm not hurt and he probably just bumped my cervix too much but he has vetoed any sex now. How do I deal with? Up till then the night had been pretty awesome!