Hey Everybody, I just met someone through Ashley Madison.com, and she is introducing me to a whole new universe. I have very few friends with whom I can discuss the endless wonder of what I'm discovering. Glad to find this site. This lady is waaaayyy into orgasm denial, somewhat less into sensory deprivation and less than that, into pain. As for me, I was and remain a devoted radical feminist. But playing with power from this new angle and mastering this incredible woman are all new to me. The problem is, I might be becoming obsessed with it. Like, I just put in an order for a custom leather collar from a local tailor and I sweated the details for days! Becoming a little afraid that vanilla might never do it for me again. Anyway, we have our next sex date in a couple of days and it makes me nervous. I just hope that I can produce the kind of experience that throws her into the next millenium. Wish me luck.