First Time Dom

Unregistered · Jan 25, 2011

Ever since I was 17, I've always wanted to own a slave, and be a dom. I've watched many bdsm videos and have been on forums, but I'm still confused...

I'm 19, hopefully in a few years when i can get my own place after college, I want to start this... probably only on weekends.

How would one start this?

Besides, buying a lot of rope,bondage tape, and vibrators.

Sate_Sprie · May 6, 2011

Buys a lot of rope, bondage tape and vibrators is probably not the best way to go about it.

Read a lot about it and what you're specifically into within BDSM. Talk with other that are already participating in the lifestyle and get different opinions and perspectives. The only way you're going to be able to participate in the lifestyle at all is to find a submissive whether that be an online submissive or a real life submissive. Either way, the more you know in advance the better off you'll both be. I started out as a novice. Master knew more about it than I but hadn't actively participated in BDSM. I found that starting out newbies together was beneficial because we both had more patience and understanding.

I can understand how confusing it can be at first. I started when I was 18, I'm almost 21 now. =) Anyway, if you need to talk feel free to join the forums and send me a message.

kajmir · Jun 19, 2011

I would strongly suggest that you register, hang out and MOST importantly read the FAQ's at the TOP of the General Discussion forum.

All I'd watched was some porn, I assumed what you did, at 32...

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