I know you should always try the search before asking questions but when you search for butt plug. WOW all kinds of things come up that don't relate to the topic. I'm looking for a butt plug that can be worn for long periods of time. One that will stay where I put it without having to have some kind of harness to hold it in place. The ones with the flange/stand/ rubber ring are just uncomfortable and wont stay put. So any ideas would be greatly appreciated.