MIRROR: Download from MEGA Click Here! Hello all, i am new to this forum and pretty much to the lifestyle (in actual play, anyway). My Husband (D) and i (s) have been married for 8 months but have just began to explore this part of our lives. My question is this - we have been in marriage counseling for the past 2 1/2 months and are unsure of how to relate the change in the dynamics of our relationship. How do we explain D/s to our marraige counselor?