My boyfriend and I are new to the forum, we're looking to enhance our BDSM relationship. I want to tell you our history in sex and BDSM first. We have been together for nearly seven months. Before him I had a partner who wanted to full out dominate me, but he scared me a little bit outside of the bedroom, so I only let him choke me. I asked my current boyfriend to choke me the first night we were together, I really enjoy it. For a while that was all that we did. As we got more comfortable together and shared our fantasies with one another our BDSM got more intense basically over night. We went to a sex shop to buy condoms (the only place around here to find the right size) I ended up convincing him to buy some of the sex tape. We went home and he tied me up and got a little rough on my nipples, I loved every minute of it. He took to it a lot more slowly, he was constantly worried about hurting me. Now he ties me up, pinches my nipples really hard,slaps me, and abuses my pussy. He gets more into it if we're watching BDSM porn. But I feel like we could get more intense and just don't really know how, I want him to verbally dominate me as well. But, he is awkward with dirty talk. I also want him to abuse me more and we want to learn how to actually do bondage (right now he just ties my wrist together and to the bed). Basically we're looking for suggestions for the next level in our dom/sub relationship and any suggestions on making it better. Him talking to me and staying in character is one of the biggest things.