I've been trying to get my boyfriend to open up with his fantasy for the past couple of years now and I've had no luck whatsoever! He's always said it's 'just anal' but that surely isn't a fantasy? My fantasy is extremely in depth and detailed and I always presumed that everybody else has one and that everybody else's was like that too! Please let me know if I'm being pushy or unreasonable! There's just nothing I'd love more than to be able to act it out for him.