Do you think you "look" like a person that is into BDSM?

sluttysub · Apr 29, 2010

Sorry, I know I've been bugging you all lately. I guess I think to much, but this thought struck me today.

I should know better, but there are some people that (to me) look as though they just fit perfectly into this world. I saw someone today that gave me this impression and it just got me thinking. I certainly don't fit the "look". In fact, as people get to know me I often hear "Seriously?! You just don't seem the type!". It really bugged me in high school because I was thought of as the "good girl". If they only knew! I have the blond hair, quiet personality, the "preppie" style clothing. Haha, I look like a straight laced soccer mom! In my car I have Garth Brooks in my disc changer, right next to Josh Groban, Ludacris and Metallica, lol.

What does your appearance and your mannerisms say about you?

(Sorry if this is in the wrong section, I'm still learning the site)

L8NightQ · Apr 29, 2010

I've been told that I do, and I've been told that I don't. Most who know me say that I have a certain presence when I enter a room.

In the end, as we grow in whatever we are, we don't so much look like it, yet we tend to know our own.

There will always be people who want to, and try to look like Doms, slaves, subs, or whatever (especially the wannabe types). I the circles I travel in, I don't trust anyone who tries to hard to impress people with their outward persona.
In my own opinion, A real Dominant wouldn't feel the need, and speaking for myself, I am Dominant, but I am more than that.

Being in a large city, and having the diverse group of friends that I do, I have been in places where it's normal for people to outwardly project their preferences, and it didn't seem odd or out of place at all.

master jey · Apr 29, 2010

i'm muscled i have evil smile and (almost always)have leather men type mustache i dress in cowboy boots tight jeans tight white shirt and leather jacket (my fav style) i listen classical rock type of music scorpions for examplei think i look like SM type
but without showing off i am a cute guy with evil thoughts

Tumbl3 · Apr 29, 2010

^^ Lol my friends always said I was a domme, but that was from personality when they got to know me. Actually, at first glance, you would never guess I am a female domme. I'm 5'1" and I'm cute.

Obedient Little Puppy · Apr 29, 2010

I was told I looked like a sub when I shaved my head. I am small and have always been called cute. I am also very quiet most of the time.

sebastian · Apr 29, 2010

Jey, let us be the judge. Pictures!

When I want to, I look like someone into leathersex, but mostly, I don't think I do. I typically wear dress shirts and pants, I project a friendly demeanor, and am a bit of a Teddy bear. Dressing as a Dom sort of transforms me by bringing out my aggressive side.

sillylittlepet · Apr 29, 2010

If anything, I seem like a domme

I dont think anyone would imagine that I'm a sub, considering I'm usually very agressive. But I'm also a cute, petite little girl! I'm very incognito

handcuff_freak · Apr 30, 2010

I'm real shy, I follow the crowd and dress in simple clothes. T-Shirt and jeans. It would be easy to tell I'm a sub. In my relationship I don't make a lot of the decisions or deal with our finances.

I don't openly tell anyone I'm into it. Only my wife knows.

WmaGuy · Apr 30, 2010

I'm very "vanilla" looking... Seeing me on the street, I am clean-cut and casually dressed. People who I've let into my world are quite surprised....

My Love My Lord · Apr 30, 2010

WmaGuy said:
I'm very "vanilla" looking... Seeing me on the street, I am clean-cut and casually dressed. People who I've let into my world are quite surprised....

Me too... have very different styles (depending on if im at work, home, what have you... ) but none would be construed as anything other than vanilla...

Those who know me are always shocked if I tell them im a sub... For starters, they can't believe I would be into BDSM, then, once they're over that shock, I always get told that I act like I would be more Domme than sub... Apparently Im too outspoken and self sufficient to be a sub in their eyes... lol

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