Do you think you "look" like a person that is into BDSM?

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  1. sluttysub

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    Sorry, I know I've been bugging you all lately. I guess I think to much, but this thought struck me today.

    I should know better, but there are some people that (to me) look as though they just fit perfectly into this world. I saw someone today that gave me this impression and it just got me thinking. I certainly don't fit the "look". In fact, as people get to know me I often hear "Seriously?! You just don't seem the type!". It really bugged me in high school because I was thought of as the "good girl". If they only knew! I have the blond hair, quiet personality, the "preppie" style clothing. Haha, I look like a straight laced soccer mom! In my car I have Garth Brooks in my disc changer, right next to Josh Groban, Ludacris and Metallica, lol. :D

    What does your appearance and your mannerisms say about you?






    (Sorry if this is in the wrong section, I'm still learning the site)
     
  2. L8NightQ

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    I've been told that I do, and I've been told that I don't. Most who know me say that I have a certain presence when I enter a room.

    In the end, as we grow in whatever we are, we don't so much look like it, yet we tend to know our own.

    There will always be people who want to, and try to look like Doms, slaves, subs, or whatever (especially the wannabe types). I the circles I travel in, I don't trust anyone who tries to hard to impress people with their outward persona.
    In my own opinion, A real Dominant wouldn't feel the need, and speaking for myself, I am Dominant, but I am more than that.

    Being in a large city, and having the diverse group of friends that I do, I have been in places where it's normal for people to outwardly project their preferences, and it didn't seem odd or out of place at all.
     
  3. master jey

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    i'm muscled i have evil smile and (almost always)have leather men type mustache i dress in cowboy boots tight jeans tight white shirt and leather jacket (my fav style) i listen classical rock type of music scorpions for examplei think i look like SM type
    but without showing off i am a cute guy with evil thoughts :)
     
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  4. Tumbl3

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    ^^ Lol my friends always said I was a domme, but that was from personality when they got to know me. Actually, at first glance, you would never guess I am a female domme. I'm 5'1" and I'm cute.
     

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    I was told I looked like a sub when I shaved my head. I am small and have always been called cute. I am also very quiet most of the time.
     
  6. sebastian

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    Jey, let us be the judge. Pictures!

    When I want to, I look like someone into leathersex, but mostly, I don't think I do. I typically wear dress shirts and pants, I project a friendly demeanor, and am a bit of a Teddy bear. Dressing as a Dom sort of transforms me by bringing out my aggressive side.
     
  7. sillylittlepet

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    If anything, I seem like a domme

    I dont think anyone would imagine that I'm a sub, considering I'm usually very agressive. But I'm also a cute, petite little girl! I'm very incognito
     

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    I'm real shy, I follow the crowd and dress in simple clothes. T-Shirt and jeans. It would be easy to tell I'm a sub. In my relationship I don't make a lot of the decisions or deal with our finances.

    I don't openly tell anyone I'm into it. Only my wife knows.
     
  9. WmaGuy

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    I'm very "vanilla" looking... Seeing me on the street, I am clean-cut and casually dressed. People who I've let into my world are quite surprised....
     

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    Me too... have very different styles (depending on if im at work, home, what have you... ) but none would be construed as anything other than vanilla...

    Those who know me are always shocked if I tell them im a sub... For starters, they can't believe I would be into BDSM, then, once they're over that shock, I always get told that I act like I would be more Domme than sub... Apparently Im too outspoken and self sufficient to be a sub in their eyes... lol
     

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    Nobody would guess... I'm very short, blonde, and have been called "sweet" on way too many occasions LOL I'm also very soft spoken unless I'm angry, but when I get angry EVERYONE backs away. My MIL once told my mom that I'm "the sweetest, kindest girl" she's ever met... my mom just looked at her and said.. "Oh.. so you haven't seen her angry yet then?" Although, it is pretty obvious to just about everyone that I run the show where our marriage and kids are concerned. People constantly tell my husband that he's whipped... if they only knew........ LOL
     
  12. master jey

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    you won't get them for some time :p i've lost camera week or two ago
    it's really hard to make me angry (i'm creepy type without being angry)
     

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    I don't think I look like a dom, I do have long dark[ish] hair, could be a bit 'gothy' I guess,
    but I'm quite slim. I look much nastier as a girl though. :D :cool:
     
  14. sluttysub

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    It sounds as though there may be an interesting back story here, lol!:D
     
  15. sebastian

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    Let's be honest, most guys do. Hag drag, anyone?
     

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