DeepThroat

Discussion in 'Safety aspects of BDSM' started by decoyicus, Sep 12, 2011.

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  1. decoyicus

    decoyicus Member

    I have a few questions about how safe deepthroating is. I have been practicing it for some time however my current boyfriends penis is very large and I have been having trouble with deepthroating him. At first I took it as a challenge however the other day instead of sliding down my throat it just slammed into the back of it, I found this to be rather painful and I still have slight bit of pain there. The current pain isn't much of a concern however I would like to know if it is possible to do any real damage or if there are any other dangers I should know about (other than choking of course). Any answers you can give me will be greatly appreciated.
     
  2. The human body's gag reflex is a survival instinct to dislodge an object in the airway to prevent blockage which restricts air.

    As long as the pharynx and epiglottis are not injured or ruptured during your consumption, which shouldn't be as its not a sharp object, you are fine to deepthroat as you deem fit.

    The aspect behind gagging and the myth behind the dangers is that a person could end up suffocating. But as long as the object becomes dislodged after losing conscienness, and normal breathing returns, you will be fine.l
     
  3. decoyicus

    decoyicus Member

    That's wonderful to know I have always been weary of trying to go deeper than I have before out of fear of doing damage, but now that I know the worse thing that could happen is I pass out I can really test my limits. Thank you for the information.
     
    Last edited: Sep 12, 2011
  4. You would really have to be working the oral performance non-stop in order to pass out from lack of oxygen! LOL! It's the point that you are safe and sound to perform as you desire. I understand concerns, so no worries! Quite welcome.
     
  5. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Agreeing that it's not dangerous, but I was just going to add that sometimes different positions can make it easier. Like for me, it's harder if I'm knelt between his legs, but if I'm taking it faceing the other way, (my head pointed towards his feet), I can take it deeper, easier. If you haven't it might be good to experiment.
     
  6. Wonderful advice as well! Creative too!
     
  7. decoyicus

    decoyicus Member

    I find the easiest position is lying on my back on the bed with my head tilted back like smallest said, although I can still perform very well on my knees. Also what do you find easier taking it down your throat yourself, or having him slide it down for you, I find its the latter so long as he's gentle.
     
  8. Tallest

    Tallest New Member

    A little bit of context to smallest's post, I'm very curved upwards, so she can't take me all the way into her mouth without being upside down, like 69.
     
  9. submissivegf07

    submissivegf07 New Member

    i always find putting my head on the edge of the bed is helpful, but that requires my dom to take initiatives, which is a downside. now i am slowly learning to take the whole thing without putting my head on the edge of the bed, but i can always feel the resistance, and it hurts my throat too. i did some research online, people say using a lot of lubrication can help, and i saw one girl saying albolene (some make up remover) is the best lub for deepthroat. it is odorless, tasteless, and a lot of porn stars use it too. hope it helps!
     
  10. Tallest

    Tallest New Member

    Something about swallowing makeup remover seems wrong to me, whether it's actually going to hurt you or not. Isn't it petroleum based?
     
  11. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    It depends on the makeup remover, and although they're generally nontoxic (since they go on sensitive areas), I wouldn't call them 'safe', and definitely not 'good' to swallow
     
  12. FTMSovereign

    FTMSovereign New Member

    I managed to sprain something deepthroating last week... im thinking it was my diaphragm, but I'm no doctor. I didn't realize I was holding my breath. I'm thinking to pass out you've really got to be self un-aware, or have someone plowing into your throat who doesn't care if you're choking. :) I told my sub he needs to stop moving his hips so much until I get the hang of it better. Deepthroating is a special treat, and it takes time to learn. Just gotta hold your horses while your partner learns.
     
  13. I've never deepthroated out of fear of, among many things, suffocation... Can you breath whilst doing this and isn't it possibly dangerous to dull your gag reflexes?
     
  14. subarama30

    subarama30 Member

    I can't deep throat, I have a bad gag reflex no matter how hard I try I naturally pull back or away when I get that too full feeling. Porn stars make it look so easy lol

    You can't suffocate Forever unless he held your nose at the same time to block all airways! It depends if you breathe well through your nose, better not practise with a cold ;)
     
  15. He says he's not into deep throating, but I thought it might be somewhat arousing if I surprised him by taking in his entire length once... But in order to do that, I would have to practice, which I would have to probably do in his sleep (tee hee!)... But my thinking is it's unhealthy to dull your gag reflexes in case you have an instance where you actually ARE choking.
     
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