Subspace pointed out to me in a private conversation that the Doms on this board don't start many threads. The occasion was that I said I'd be interested to know something and she asked why I didn't start a thread Therefore I will share my curisosity with you- the wonderful submissives of this forum. On another post there was a question about the 9 Levels of Submission. A short essay originally written by a lesbian Domme in the 80's. Find it here: http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/the9levelsofsubmission2.htm After you read it, I'd be curious to know where you see yourselves on the scale both in real life and fantasy, and why.