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I wanted to add a few things, hopefully you all will come back and read this...
I made this thread because I had a "dom" chat me up. He was curious and while I'm happy with my Master, I figure chatting to others is no big thing.
Let's call this "dom" bob.
Bob decided in minutes I was the perfect sub for 2 reasons:
1. I was as new as him so we could learn together.
2. I didn't always want to be the sub, sometimes I just want to chat and he's not always hard.
Bob concerned me because Bob didn't base his "choice" on:
~A long and details conversation .
~Any really knowledge of ME or really of HIM.
~Any common interests or goals.
~Any INTEREST in me as a PERSON nevermid a sub.
Again I will state I am VERY new to this all, I'm not even sure I really have a right to be on this forum, not for my lack of knowledge but I think maybe that I am not much more then maybe a roleplayer, sexually I love my commands, tasks, play, humiliation.. But outside of those things, I'm not sure I'd have any interest. Though, I've never been broken down or been with a trained dom. But I at least take the time to gain/give some information, a sense of comfort and common interest to get a feeling of comptibility OR not before going on... Bob really didn't bother doing the same.
But with that said, I've spent some time reading in forum, talking to others a little and I know that those 2 reasons are bullshit. He asked nothing about me, told me nothing about himself, and HUGE turn off, he actually whined that he couldn't find a sub, while I found a Master. I felt a need to hand him a tissue, it was like a kid whining for a candy he didn't get, but the kid next to him did..Maybe it's bitchy, but I felt embarrassed for him.
He was very young and I DO realize we all gotta start somewhere, but he left a terrible taste in my mouth. I just kept thinking what if he finds someone as new as him, it's gonna be a nightmare. And if he wants to roleplay fine, lots do, but he should be informed of the difference in dom's. He couldn't communicate his wants, needs, requirements or even ask me a question without me coaching him, he wanted me to train him and I am in NO position to do that. The sub shouldn't be drawing out the Master, if I get anything, it's THAT.
I know enough that I realize a few commands does not make one a true Dom. And this should be pointed out to others who don't. I prolly seem harsh but I just saw red flag after red flag. And Bob HAS cousins, lol.
I thank you all for taking the time to read this thread and get something started.
I made this thread because I had a "dom" chat me up. He was curious and while I'm happy with my Master, I figure chatting to others is no big thing.
Let's call this "dom" bob.
Bob decided in minutes I was the perfect sub for 2 reasons:
1. I was as new as him so we could learn together.
2. I didn't always want to be the sub, sometimes I just want to chat and he's not always hard.
Bob concerned me because Bob didn't base his "choice" on:
~A long and details conversation .
~Any really knowledge of ME or really of HIM.
~Any common interests or goals.
~Any INTEREST in me as a PERSON nevermid a sub.
Again I will state I am VERY new to this all, I'm not even sure I really have a right to be on this forum, not for my lack of knowledge but I think maybe that I am not much more then maybe a roleplayer, sexually I love my commands, tasks, play, humiliation.. But outside of those things, I'm not sure I'd have any interest. Though, I've never been broken down or been with a trained dom. But I at least take the time to gain/give some information, a sense of comfort and common interest to get a feeling of comptibility OR not before going on... Bob really didn't bother doing the same.
But with that said, I've spent some time reading in forum, talking to others a little and I know that those 2 reasons are bullshit. He asked nothing about me, told me nothing about himself, and HUGE turn off, he actually whined that he couldn't find a sub, while I found a Master. I felt a need to hand him a tissue, it was like a kid whining for a candy he didn't get, but the kid next to him did..Maybe it's bitchy, but I felt embarrassed for him.
He was very young and I DO realize we all gotta start somewhere, but he left a terrible taste in my mouth. I just kept thinking what if he finds someone as new as him, it's gonna be a nightmare. And if he wants to roleplay fine, lots do, but he should be informed of the difference in dom's. He couldn't communicate his wants, needs, requirements or even ask me a question without me coaching him, he wanted me to train him and I am in NO position to do that. The sub shouldn't be drawing out the Master, if I get anything, it's THAT.
I know enough that I realize a few commands does not make one a true Dom. And this should be pointed out to others who don't. I prolly seem harsh but I just saw red flag after red flag. And Bob HAS cousins, lol.
I thank you all for taking the time to read this thread and get something started.
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