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Hi fd - I would suggest reading a book together and I have two suggestions.
1. The New Topping Book/The new Bottoming Book by Easton and Hardy
These books take a look at who you are, give you a fun perspective (take the evil out) on the kinds of things we like to do, and things you need to know to do it safely. You read yours, and he reads his (or both read both) They're good books for the situation you've described and I'm sure you guys will have a lot to talk about while reading.
2. Topping From Below by Laura Reece
A novel about the world of D/s, S&M, and other kinky things people do... all wrapped up in a "who done it" murder mystery. Years ago, my girlfriend and I decided to read it at the same time so we could talk about it as we went..... That went well!
I recommend reading together as one of the things any couple can do, both to expand their thoughts about what they are into, and to stimulate conversation about what they read at any given moment.
We are all kinky here, but we are not all alike. We all have different tastes, daydreams, turn on/off buttons, and we think differently about what is and what is not extreme, sometimes depending on what we've had a chance to experience.
I know that just bringing something up in conversation can be hard, and you never know how your partner will react , but discussing events in a book that you liked can bridge to a really good talk between the two of you about what you would like to see more of, or less of in real life.
One other suggestion I have for you... Practice sessions. Tell him you would like to practice for whatever he would most love to happen when he comes home, or when he finishes dinner, or when he wakes up, etc.... Pretend the situation, and go through what happens in his daydream. It's a lot of fun and it might surprise you when you see the results.
Lastly - Not all of us are cut out for 24/7. If he's not, he may eventually get to that point, or maybe not. Just love him anyway.
It sounds like you have a great relationship and you guys are pretty open about your sexuality. Take your time with these suggestions and let the practices evolve to whatever they become in your long term life.
By the way..... All these things are meant to do one thing, stimulate communication. (LOL).
Hope this helps.
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