So, I get why I like obeying, but what is the Dom getting out of it? To explain the background, I was chatting with a gentleman of a dominant persuasion, and he was enthusing on the subject of obedience. It occurred to me that I've always sort of assumed that Doms like obedience as a means to and end. i.e. that a guy likes blowjobs, (for example), and having an obedient partner means he gets a blowjob whenever he asks for one. This person I was talking to however was saying that the act is less relevant to him, its the fact that someone is obeying that is hot. It never really occurred to me that obedience in and of itself was sexy to some doms, and I don't really get it. I freely confess that the idea of having someone who did everything I said sounds completely boring to me. Almost more akin to masturbation than sex with another person, but then, I'm not the dominant type. Anyway, I'm wildly curious, so if anyone has any ideas, I'd love to hear it. (Personal anecdote and half-assed speculations are welcome, I'm not really expecting a definitive answer here).