I've recently discovered BDSM through my last boyfriend and I found that I'm submissive. I'm curious as to what else it entails besides wax, leather, being bound and taking orders, since those are the fields I have experienced. I'm new to the site and am currently not looking for a Master or anything. I'm here more because a lot of people I know regard BDSM as a huge taboo and I want to find out a lot more so that I can write a novel chartering how the relationship between a Dominant and a submissive starts and progresses, since I myself have never had that. I've seen quite a few films on the sunject but it doesn't capture the essence of being dominated - you tend not to see the relationship and just the hardcore sex instead. I've read about BDSM on BEST Slave Training but that didn't satisfy my curiosity. I want to hear things straight from a fellow submissive and/or a Dominant, preferrably with experience.