Discussion in 'Safety aspects of BDSM' started by decoyicus, Sep 8, 2010.

  1. decoyicus

    decoyicus Member

    I've been thinking of involving cigarettes into me and my GFs sensation play but I am a little bit concerted over what is safe what is not I'm not a idiot so I know I cant just stub one out on her but I have been thinking about flicking hot ash, blowing smoke in her face and very briefly brushing her with the hot cherry If you could provide me with some safety info and maybe a few ideas I would appreciate it
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  2. kajmir

    kajmir Member

    Flicking hot ashes, as a smoker myself, easier said then done. A lot of times the cherry will fall off, serious factor. You're also looking at a problem of hot ashes going where you don't want them to, sheets, carpet, etc.

    Maybe you smoke, maybe you don't, but if you don't, you also don't wanna take that first inhale, wish to hell I never had.

    Unless this is a serious hardon for you just thinking about it, I'd pass.
    May I suggest matches? Striking one, putting them out on her, glass of water to drop them into within arms reach. Less concern with hot ashes going in bad places and maybe it's not a factor but no scars to worry about with a loose cherry. And should you be a bit overzealous MUCH faster healing time. And certainly cheaper.

    I'm not implying you would wouldn't be careful but any one who smokes knows that ashes often don't end up in the ashtray (where you plan), but on your brand new shirt, the arm rest of that nice leather chair etc.

    Not sure this was any help at all, if you smoke, you know this stuff yourself.
  3. decoyicus

    decoyicus Member

    I had been thinking this one through over the weekend and have decided against it but matches sound relatively safe I will test out a few on myself first to see if I think she will like it but knowing her and her fascination with fire she will probably be into. thanks for the idea Kajmir
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  4. kajmir

    kajmir Member

    And I'm sure you've done wax..
  5. decoyicus

    decoyicus Member

    ....... I'll look into it
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  6. pepeluism

    pepeluism Member

    I regularly get cigarrettes put off on my skin. Sometimes those leave marks, sometimes they don't. I never found them to be dangerous. Last month I had quite a few put off on my testicles and penis and while it does hurt, I recovered well.
  7. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Remember that fire and bdsm are a potentially deadly combination. If you have a sub tied up when you do anything involving fire, make sure that 1) you have a means to put any fire out at hand (so a big glass of water at a minimum) and 2) you have the ability to quickly release the sub if the fire gets out of hand.

    This message is brought to you by your local BDSM safety officer.
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  8. Mordred

    Mordred New Member

    You so are! : )
  9. WildsweetSwitch

    WildsweetSwitch New Member

    One night, my husband and I were out drinking with some new friends. I was dancing with my girls, when a handsome stranger came up to me and started to grind on me, so I played along for a minute. Ohhh this made my husband sooo angry. He grabbed my arm, jerked me down in the chair beside him and burned my leg with his cigarette, in front of our friends.
    That was about 3 years ago, and I can still see a small divot in the white scar on my skin.
    And I have to say, it still turns me on thinking about it. ;)

    But if you aren't familiar with burning and aftercare, it can get infected easily.
    I'd say, start with hot wax and matches, like the others said.
    Have fun!
  10. jacy

    jacy New Member

    the nipple heals very well. A cig. right next to it is a bit painful, and touching a bit even more so. Also makes it more sensitive.

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