So I'm dating this girl who's into choking, only the catch is, she has no desire to the chokee--I'm the one who has to be at the business end of her choke grip for her to get off. It began rather innocently--she'd be on top and give my neck a gentle squeeze here and there, but after awhile she began stepping on my neck, spitting on me, calling me a cunt, etc. Also, as of the last couple of weeks, she's pressing the fire extinguisher down on my throat so hard I am actually passing out. Since this is occurring during foreplay and I'm waking up at an indeterminate time later, I'm not actually sure we're even having sex anymore. So the question is, is she avoiding sex by choking me out or am I just being paranoid? She says I'm enjoying it, but who knows.