Choke play

Discussion in 'General fetish discussions' started by Obedient Little Puppy, Sep 22, 2009.

  1. Well, sorry this took a while to get round to, but here you go :)

    This was something we stumbled upon completely by accident, more than likely brought on by the boredom and frustration caused by the alarmingly shite porn DVD we were watching :rolleyes:

    Anyway, I was still bound hand and foot from another small game we had just played, and I decided I would like to remain so throughtout the film, and gagged too, as I have a tendency to talk/ask questions throughout a film :D

    We were struggling, in our boredom, to follow the film, and in the end my master just got fed up and turned his full attention to me. To be honest, I can't even remember how it happened...probably gently to begin with, lots of stroking and touching and so on.

    Then, suddenly, it was like something snapped; he began to get more aggressive with me, and before I knew what was happening, his hand was around my throat, pretty tight, and I felt myself struggling to breathe. It was a total shock to me, not least because I found I loved the experience, and when he then said in a really cold voice, 'Do you realise just how easy it would be for me to kill you now?' I felt the most indescribable, shameful, sick thrill ;)

    Even as this was happening, I felt completely safe; there was no fear, and my trust in him was absolute. I knew without asking that I would come to no harm, and even insisted (well, begged) him to put on our skimask to create a more menacing appearance.

    This made my excitement even more intense, being forced to look into the eyes of this masked man, knowing I was under his total control. He had my mouth free again by this point and ordered me to kiss him, his hand constantly around my throat, tightening whenever I refused, and I have to admit that I tested him a few times, just to see how far he would go, but he never once exceeded what I could cope with.

    The weirdest thing was, I didn't have my safetoy, which I know I should have had, but I didn't feel as though I needed it. And what actually forced the session to an abrupt end was the fact that the word play that developed at some point during it got a bit out of hand.

    Sorry for rambling :D But we both loved this so much, and have experimented more since; we seem to have found a safety level we are comfortable with, and so, within that, I am hoping there will be a lot more of this to come! :)
     
  2. Sub4Life

    Sub4Life Member

    My Master really wants to try this. We kind of played with it but I panicked and we stopped. I really want to try it too, but am nervous, even though I really do trust my master completly. Do you have any advice with becoming more secure with this?
     
  3. kittengrey

    kittengrey Member

    There was a big thing about choke paly in the news. It was a game pre-teens and teens started playing, choking each other, finding ways to cut off air because of the high. A lot of kids died from it actually, hanging themselves cuz they pass out before they can get free their necks.
    Hate to scare you, but when I first read this, thats the first thing I though out. Me and Master play a little like this, but she only keeps her hand or arm on my neck for a few seconds. Though there was one time, before I was her sub but we were going out, where we were fighting so badly. We were in school and I saw her in the hallway and slammed her up against the lockers with my hand wrapped around her throat. She later told me that I made her see spots but it turned totally turned her on.
     
  4. I posted about this in the safety forum too, that it was only for a few seconds at a time I was being choked. My master makes a point of watching my reactions to anything he does really carefully, especially so in a situation such as this. The most intense reaction I had was my struggling to breathe, but I never once had any vision impairment, like seeing spots or blacking out. Now we have done this a couple more times, we have reached a comfortable safety level we agree on, and I have my safetoy too, which I know I should have had in the beginning, but the trust I put in my master was rewarded a hundredfold and I can never thank him enough for that :)

    Sub4Life, I had wanted to try this before, but I was always too scared to. When it happened at the weekend, it was completely unexpected. All I can say is be really careful, use a safetoy, and make sure you communicate, so you both know exactly how far you are prepared to take the game. If you do give it a go, then good luck, and let us know how it goes :)
     
  5. Sub4Life

    Sub4Life Member

    We have played around with it, when he kisses me he grabs my throat and will speak or yell into my face and I love it, but I am afraid. I know he would never hurt me and I trust him, I just dont know if he will know when it is too much and if one quick squeeze could do some real damage. We need to do a lot more resaerch before going further. For now though we will keep on dipping in our toes. lol
     
  6. GreyMac

    GreyMac Member

    Breath play is easily done by pinching the nostrils shut with the thumb and forefinger and laying the palm of the same hand over the mouth. All air is controlled by the Dom and there are no tell-tale finger bruises to have to explain, or Hyoid bone (Larynx) fractures to worry about.
     
  7. We did experiment with something similar too, him pinching my nostrils shut while my mouth was taped shut. Again, only for a couple of seconds at a time, so all was fine, and it was quite nice too :)
     

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