can anyone help a newbie with being a dom male?

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Classic, May 5, 2008.

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  1. Classic

    Classic New Member

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    I am new to this forum and the whole SM community. My girl really like to be dominated and she has told me this. we have never been intimate yet though. I have used hand-cuffs before (in other relationships). I dont know all the ins and outs of being a dom male. I enjoy it but I dont have much practice and would not want the girl to think that i dont know what im doing at all. i want to be able to give her what she wants when the time comes. where can i learn more about how to be better at this kind of stuff. I know what she likes i think. She knows I'm inexperienced. Should i just talk to her and find out exactly what she wants before hand (like how hard to spank her) or should i ask when im doing it? Also i dont really know that mush of how to talk to her during sex that gives off the dom vibe. Can anyone help me with where i can get the materials or training to satisfy her?
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