Butt plug question

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Gowermi, Mar 19, 2010.

  1. Gowermi

    Gowermi New Member

    I just got a trio of plugs off Amazon, three different sizes. One really tiny and basically finger size: worthless for staying in. One slightly too small, and keeps falling out. And one too big (for now). What are some techniques for keeping a butt plug in that doesn't want to stay in? What are some techniques for getting over that last hump of a huge plug so I can finally get it in?
  2. subspace

    subspace Member

    To keep it in usually a tight pair of underwear will work but I think actually putting on snug jeans works the best because of the tight seam. This works well with the smaller plugs and helps you get used to the idea of moving around and performing daily activities while plugged.

    Welcome to the forum!
  3. Gowermi

    Gowermi New Member

    Thanks for the reply! I put in the medium one with some whitey tighties, and I'm going to wear it over night to stretch myself out a bit. Hopefully I can get the big one in tomorrow.
  4. subspace

    subspace Member

    Great! Let us know how it goes, and dont forget, you can never have too much lube!
  5. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    And take your time stretching yourself, to reduce the risk of injuring yourself. This isn't a competition like America's Next Top Bottom.
  6. Gowermi

    Gowermi New Member

    I still wasn't able to get the big one in this morning, but I'll keep up my training. However, I got the middle one to stay in easier, so progress has been made!
  7. My suggestion is to use each size for at least 2 weeks before going to the next size. Makes things much easier...
  8. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member

    I've always been terrified of people being able to tell that something is there when you wear a buttplug with tight jeans! I'm worried the base of the plug will show through
    Even when I wore tight underwear, it still wanted to slowly slide out... is that inevitable?
    I want to eventually wear my plug in public, but I would rather not screw up and alert everyone
  9. stray79

    stray79 New Member

    Training is what worked when i was first required to wear plugs. Not only stretching my rectal muscles, but hugging the plug tightly to keep it in. i wasn't allowed panties and a few times was required to be plugged in public wearing a skirt or dress. That's when i would be so afraid of it falling out while in class or at work. lolol But that was after 5 or 6 months of training. So flexing your butt muscles, tightening and hugging the plug for as long as you can. It's an exercise you can do while driving, watching tv, etc. Even if you're not plugged, flexing a few times a day really helps!
    Last edited: Mar 25, 2010
  10. Tarynsslave

    Tarynsslave Member

    I understand very well the issues you're dealing with. Mistress Taryn keeps me permanently plugged. Mistress has me wear a butt plug harness that is locked on to ensure that my butt plug stays securely inserted. Aside from my permitted bathroom breaks (3 quick breaks per day), my butt plug never comes out. Otherwise, get a few pairs of tight thongs- they also work pretty well to keep a butt plug where it belongs.

    When a large plug just won't seem to slide in, I find it helpful to insert the plug as far as possible (hopefully near the bulge). When I'm at this point, I use the exact same muscles as having a bowel movement (that "pushing out" feeling). This opens up the anus a little extra bit, allowing a big butt plug to slide all the way in.

    Best of luck!

    Taryn's Slave

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