best way to find a sub

Discussion in 'General fetish discussions' started by themaster, Feb 6, 2009.

  1. themaster

    themaster New Member


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    i have always wanted to get in to bdsm, but have never been able to find a female sub, to share my dreams with, anyone any know the best place to look?
     
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  2. ReallyGreen

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    Post a Craigslist ad.

    However I'd suggest serving as a sub for a while before moving onto getting your own sub. But thats just my opinion I guess.
     
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  3. themaster

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    i could never be a sub, i am too much of a control freak, well thats not ture really, but i think i have enough people in the real world telling me what to do, i just want a small space of my own to control and enjoy, thats what i am looking for really, as long as i look after the sub too,(she would be more important than me really) that should be ok, shouldnt it
     
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  4. ReallyGreen

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    Well Craigslist works for me.
     
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  5. tiemeuphard

    tiemeuphard New Member


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    I have been looking for a master for a long time ;)
     
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  6. Prissy

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    The Master, if you are not willing to first be a sub, I sugest you talk to your sub a lot, and find out if you are doing things wel for them, and not overdoing it.
     
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  7. Ms.sub13

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    I started dating a guy first before I told him I was a sub. Try something like that but don't scare her away. Just see if it is something she would be interested in trying.
     
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  8. serodio

    serodio Banned


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    Much what sub13 says: If you want a sub, you're better off looking for a partner that is GGG to try whatever you want to get into. If you're just getting into BDSM, chances are you're not going to find a lot of subs willing to serve a novice.
     
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    Get your coat Themaster, you've pulled. :)
    [This is the part where you find out she lives 2000 miles away]. :(
     
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  10. Prissy

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    You have got that right Master of Puppies
     

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