BDSM without sex

macguy · Jan 29, 2008

When I have been with a dominant lady I only get a hardon when she is making me strip, ordering me to my knees, tying my hands or feet or during oral sex, when being fucked in the ass or being whipped or being tied to a chair with a long dildo up my ass, I am not turned on as I am either crying or in a lot of pain. At the same time, I do respect her for doing these things to me as I have had a dom or would threaten me to do these things but she would forget it and I did not respect her as much.

macguy · Jan 29, 2008

By the balls

I believe when a lady has you by the balls, she is in total control and can make a male do almost anything. When I have been with a dominant lady I only get a hardon when she is making me strip, ordering me to my knees, tying my hands or feet or during oral sex, when being fucked in the ass or being whipped or being tied to a chair with a long dildo up my ass, I am not turned on as I am either crying or in a lot of pain. At the same time, I do respect her for doing these things to me as I have had a dom or would threaten me to do these things but she would forget it and I did not respect her as much.

jambgood · Feb 15, 2008

I am in a BDSM relationship without sex. My Mistress and I have neither intercourse nor oral sex, and I am never allowed sexual release during a scene. However, I do achieve an emotional release that is deeply satisfying.

The ironic thing is that my Mistress has a very strong sex drive. She masturbates frequently and has a regular lover who she says "fucks for hours." This is a bit humiliating to me because I suffer from premature ejaculation and only last a minute or two.

BTW: Hello EV1. I'm new here. This looks like a fun forum.

rikkiann · Feb 15, 2008

I cant even imagine s/m play without sex. When im getting punished severely it only the thought of the pleasure that is to come that keeps me going. i love it when he has me tied really tight and is caning or whippimg the hell out of me and then he takes me hard as soon as he stops. I scream from my orgasm as much as i did from the pain. For me a good beating is just foreplay

rikki

DearElliot · Feb 18, 2008

Not allowed...

My mistress soothes my penis with hot oil after the punishment session, and the soreness does go away but I start to show signs of cumming and she Reminds me..this is strictly theraputic in nature so dont you dare soil my hands..or you will pay dearly in pain...and of course there is no way I can keep from ejaculating all over her hands..and she is true to her words...I must go get the needles for her..

madamkatsuimis_sissyboi · Feb 19, 2008

as said before its up to the induvidual, they are connected for me but i to enjoy humiliation control and suffering for my madams pleasure. i have not got the choice of sexual pleasure as i commited to full time chastity to show my devotion to my madam. ive been locked in my chastity device, a CB curve since january 3rd and my madam says she might let me play with myself on her bithday (28 march) if i please her with my birthday gifts to her.

gwendoline · Feb 19, 2008

For the last 4 years I have had the most wonderful 24/7 sub/Domme relationship with no sex at all. I am allowed some very intimate moments as I am my Mistress’s mobile toilet drinking virtually all Her pee and Mistress will often sit on my face as She delivers punishment to my cock and balls but that is the nearest to oral sex we have. When my Mistress allows me a release it is always accompanied by pain and I always have to lick up the resulting mess.

interior_world · Mar 24, 2008

tight and restrictive bondage is the way to go so she is totally helpless, after teasing and spanking then a really hard pounding in the ass and vagina to finish her off

rikkiann · Mar 27, 2008

i think that sums it up for me. really tight bondage, a hard beating and then a really hard pounding

rikki

nix · Apr 18, 2008

whenever I'm the dom, I have to have sex with bdsm. when I sub (most of the time) I can have with or without.

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