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I was going to say 80/20 or even 90/10, but then I thought about it. While BDSM is what I think of when I think of sex, the fact is that non-kinky sex is included a lot more than I first thought.... but it doesn't have to be one or the other.
I've been at this for a long time, but maybe I'm just not so hard core as many here.
My relationships have always started vanilla with dominant trends in sex starting early in the process. Even before that, I'd tease about her looking like a damsel or princess and how good she would look tied to a train track by some villain, or I'd tease her about being bad and needing a spanking. That's my weeding out process. They may not last long if that doesn't go as I expect.
If the relationship is informal, it tends to be much more heavy on the BDSM side, but with an intimate partner it's different.
With a sub/partner the two types morph a little. It could be regular at first, then it turns into kink, I could also hook her by the collar to a high place immediately, and strip her while I flog and spank her, force orgasms out of her mixed with pain play, then secure her to a chair or table for more of the same. After that we might still have regular (non tied) sex to end the session.
When it's like that, it's almost like aftercare. It's a lot more personal.
It could also be sex with no equipment, yet the mindset is there. No one is saying that you can't be kind, loving, and sensual with your slave.
Dominance and submission is much more in the relationship than in the ropes.
No RS, you're not alone. It's not odd to enjoy your sub/partner in as many ways as possible, and I'm sure you're both happy like that.
If you're here, it's because you belong here, just like the rest of us.
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