Do some, or most, of you worry about this?...... or is it just the discomfort. I know some people really love it, but what precautions do you take when switching after.
This is definitely a huge concern for me, which hinders the amount of time that we(My Sub and I) do anal sex.
The net contains very little information about the CHANCES and the REASONS as to an anal prolapse or tearing of the anal tissue.
Most sites that I find on the net with google are some American religious extremists who says that anal play will always lead to HIV and whatnot.
Well, I'm sure that my sub does not cheat on me, and neither do I. I was tested for STDs before we even had sex, and she was a virgin when we first were together.
Therefore, disease shouldn't be a problem unless of course I stop using a condom and thus risks getting one of those Coli-infections.
(if that were to happen, what would be the standard treatment, and would it damage anything for good, or would it simply be momentary pain and treatment?)
About anal tissue being ripped and anal prolapse. Well, as already stated this definitely keeps me back a bit since I am scared that I might injure her. (I HATE injuries on the inside because it is impossible for me to evaluate the severity of it, when do you need a doctors aid? and when do you not? - somehow a horror image still lurks around in my head, extremely exaggerated events but still something that is hard to ignore due to lack of information on the subject
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This is also why I often do relaxed and slow anal sex, simply because I am afraid to fuck something up.
When we do it, it is awesome but there definitely are some obstacles in the way, although only mental obstacles it would seem.
I would really like to know how you guys and girls cope with the idea of anal damage.
If any of you know any good site about the subject, please pass on the link. The problem isn't to find guidelines to anal sex, since there are plenty of those sites. The problem is to find a site that accurately details the risks and how to avoid it.
As an example, Anal prolapse appears to be age related, and not really connected with anal sex. Anal sex should actually strengthen your resistance to an anal prolapse since it trains the anal muscle. True or false?
(The statement was provided by sexual-guiders from a Danish site that offers free sexual guiding on ALL subjects completely anonymously)