In just the last year or so I became very curious about BDSM, mostly due to some fetishes I have and fantasies I recently developed. After researching and learning as much as I can, I've become very interested. I've never actually had a BDSM experience, but I was wondering, would it be a good idea to have my first experience with a professional domme? At least then I would know that my first mistress was experienced. If I do seek after a professional domme, how exactly would I go about finding out from past subs of her's how good at it she is? Did anyone here have their first experience with a profesional?