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I had a conversation with my extremely vanilla ex a while back about my BDSM preferences that I took offense to and wanted to get others opinions and experiences.
A major sticking point with my ex and I was my preference to have BDSM play a part in our lives and his extremely strong aversion to it. He viewed it as disrespectful amongst many other things. He’s totally convinced though that I have some past abuse that I won’t tell anyone about and that’s the reason why I’m submissive. I was very offended at the way he approached the conversation, utterly convinced that there must be some past trauma in my life to explain what “wrong†with me…
I imagine I’m not the only one to experience this…
So, I know this is going to be a hard topic, but, I am very curious as to how much of a role past abuse plays in someone’s preference toward BDSM as this is not the first time I’ve seen people make assumptions like this. I know several people have made references on previous threads about past abuse. I’m not asking anyone to share any details they don’t want to, just as simple as are you a Dom or sub, and, have you previously been abused.
Thank you!
A major sticking point with my ex and I was my preference to have BDSM play a part in our lives and his extremely strong aversion to it. He viewed it as disrespectful amongst many other things. He’s totally convinced though that I have some past abuse that I won’t tell anyone about and that’s the reason why I’m submissive. I was very offended at the way he approached the conversation, utterly convinced that there must be some past trauma in my life to explain what “wrong†with me…
I imagine I’m not the only one to experience this…
So, I know this is going to be a hard topic, but, I am very curious as to how much of a role past abuse plays in someone’s preference toward BDSM as this is not the first time I’ve seen people make assumptions like this. I know several people have made references on previous threads about past abuse. I’m not asking anyone to share any details they don’t want to, just as simple as are you a Dom or sub, and, have you previously been abused.
Thank you!
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