I have a request, since many of you are creative and knowledgeable. I'd love to see the 10 Commandments created but for a Dom/Domme, what you think are the most BASIC 10 Commandments every dom/domme should abide by. I'm so looking foward to this...
If I wasn't such a newbie this might/could be easy, but it does give me something to think about and see what I come up with. And yes, I'm looking forward to the replies myself.
1) thou shalt respect thy sub and remember that s/he submits voluntarily to thy wishes. 2) thou shalt practice safety at all times, knowing that thou art the holder of thy sub's health and life. 3) thou shalt read about any new techniques that thou art interested in before trying them. 4) thou shalt not do to thy sub what thou hast not already experienced thyself. 5) thou shalt communicate thy desires to thy sub, and listen to those of thy sub. 6) thou shalt accept the darkness in thy soul, for it is the source of thy dominance. 7) thou shalt explore and push thine own limits, but thou shalt not do that which discomfits thee overmuch. 8) thou shalt not demand more than thy sub can give. 9) thou shalt realize that thou art not perfect. Thou wilst make mistakes; accept them and learn from them. 10) thou shalt remember that pleasure is thy goal, and thy sub's.
Jey I am not at all reglious, this was for fun to see what people came up with, not at all a lecture. Most religions offend me, but we won't go there, everyone has a right to believe as they wish.
You know you just could have read the newcomers FAQ thread to get this information, don't you, rather than create a new thread?
I disagree, OLP. I think this is a perfectly valid and useful thread. It's about trying to summarize the essential principles of domming in a short space.
I agree with Seb. Yes you could have read the faq thread like OLP said, but these "comandments" remind you of respect, trust, limits...and other things any new Dom should know by heart and remember. I think it wouldn't hurt to read Seb's list everytime before you play.
tread carefully, for you tread on anothers soul hurt, but do not harm guide with purpose trust your instinct patience is key punish not in anger, but correct with measure lead by example, not by fear do not deceive, others nor yourself When you take full responsibility of someone, do take full responsibility for them. Don't keep secrets. In no particular order.
I like the fun-ness of this thread though. I was going to post and then I saw Seb's. Btw, Master Jey I love your new avatar
