A Creative Request.

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by kajmir, Sep 25, 2010.

  1. kajmir

    kajmir Member

    I have a request, since many of you are creative and knowledgeable.

    I'd love to see the 10 Commandments created but for a Dom/Domme, what you think are the most BASIC 10 Commandments every dom/domme should abide by.

    I'm so looking foward to this...
     
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  2. DR.HT

    DR.HT New Member

    If I wasn't such a newbie this might/could be easy, but it does give me something to think about and see what I come up with. And yes, I'm looking forward to the replies myself.
     
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    1) thou shalt respect thy sub and remember that s/he submits voluntarily to thy wishes.
    2) thou shalt practice safety at all times, knowing that thou art the holder of thy sub's health and life.
    3) thou shalt read about any new techniques that thou art interested in before trying them.
    4) thou shalt not do to thy sub what thou hast not already experienced thyself.
    5) thou shalt communicate thy desires to thy sub, and listen to those of thy sub.
    6) thou shalt accept the darkness in thy soul, for it is the source of thy dominance.
    7) thou shalt explore and push thine own limits, but thou shalt not do that which discomfits thee overmuch.
    8) thou shalt not demand more than thy sub can give.
    9) thou shalt realize that thou art not perfect. Thou wilst make mistakes; accept them and learn from them.
    10) thou shalt remember that pleasure is thy goal, and thy sub's.
     
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  4. sillylittlepet

    sillylittlepet Active Member

    we outta rename this thread "THE 10 COMMANDMENTS"

    Also seb, I couldnt have said it better myself
     
  5. kajmir

    kajmir Member

    I should have requested that Seb go last...

    What the hell is your iq anyways? 187?

    -Bows to The Seb-
     
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  6. master jey

    master jey Moderator

    Kennedy had IQ187 right?
    I'm not a bible fan so commandments make me angry I'll pas on this one
     
  7. kajmir

    kajmir Member

    Jey I am not at all reglious, this was for fun to see what people came up with, not at all a lecture.
    Most religions offend me, but we won't go there, everyone has a right to believe as they wish.
     
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  8. You know you just could have read the newcomers FAQ thread to get this information, don't you, rather than create a new thread?
     
  9. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    I disagree, OLP. I think this is a perfectly valid and useful thread. It's about trying to summarize the essential principles of domming in a short space.
     
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  10. kajmir

    kajmir Member

    You all forget fun....until Seb's big brain joined us. -lol-
     
  11. Ceilidh

    Ceilidh Member

    I agree with Seb.

    Yes you could have read the faq thread like OLP said, but these "comandments" remind you of respect, trust, limits...and other things any new Dom should know by heart and remember.

    I think it wouldn't hurt to read Seb's list everytime before you play.
     
  12. praefect

    praefect Member

    tread carefully, for you tread on anothers soul
    hurt, but do not harm
    guide with purpose
    trust your instinct
    patience is key
    punish not in anger, but correct with measure
    lead by example, not by fear
    do not deceive, others nor yourself
    When you take full responsibility of someone, do take full responsibility for them.
    Don't keep secrets.

    In no particular order.
     
  13. Tumbl3

    Tumbl3 Member

    I like the fun-ness of this thread though. I was going to post and then I saw Seb's.

    Btw, Master Jey I love your new avatar :D
     

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