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    Low sex drive

    Thank you so much Seb and Lady! Sir and I have slowed things down mentally which has actually kicked things up a bit physically. Understanding these things have been such a big help. Thank you both!
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    Low sex drive

    Thanks again Seb. I really do love your advice! I really never thought about things that way. I think because your feeling ok that your done healing. I never thought about the healing process and how long the "unseen" takes to heal. Thank you so much. I feel so much better and will definitely...
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    Low sex drive

    Thank you so much Sebastian! What you say makes a lot of sense. The surgery I had was liposuction (early 40th b-day present to myself). Sir loved the way I was before the surgery. This was all for me with his support. I am still a bit swollen, although still smaller than I was, and a little...
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    Low sex drive

    I will try and make this short. Here's a little background. I'm 39, female. My husband and I got into bdsm about 6 months ago. He is an amazing Sir and everything was going amazingly! All he had to do was look at me and I would get turned on (not to mention the whole bdsm thing was a HUGE turn...
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    considering adding a 3rd to our bed

    Thanks for everyone's responses. This is definitely not something we are taking lightly and really appreciate any input. We have been together way too long to let anything mess it up. Much like everything in a relationship communication and honesty are HUGE!! This may be on the table for a year...
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    Not Wanting To Be Submissive

    Thanks Sebastian. I am feeling much more myself today. This is a very stressful time of the year for both my husband and I. I guess with that and hormones I just wasn't feeling quit normal.
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    Not Wanting To Be Submissive

    Do you ever not want to be submissive? Not like "test your Dom" not want to be submissive. But really not want to. No desire for sex. Nothing. We started this lifestyle about 2 months ago and it has been AWSOME. Every day I have been so eager to please him and give him everything I have and...
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    Good Dominate Threats (Curious)

    Not all of these things have been done but they have all been threatened. We talked about what I defenately could not handle (hard limits) and what would just be unpleasant. These are some of the things that we came up with. I can cum when he takes my ass IF I am allowed to play with myself...
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    Good Dominate Threats (Curious)

    I have been with my husband for 16 years. We have just recently gotten into this and I had a hard time believing that he would be able to pull off the Dom side let alone the controlling, take what I want side. I even told him that I didn't think he could pull off the "asshole Dom" (as we have...
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    First: hello, then a bit about us, then questions...

    The first couple times we "played" felt a bit weird olny because my husband, by nature, is very kind and loving and to have him demand things took a bit to get used to. It was so hot though that I really didn't mind. Calling him Sir seemed to come pretty naturally. I even accidentally said it...
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    First: hello, then a bit about us, then questions...

    My husband/Dom and I are pretty new to this (just over a month) and I have always had issues with my body. I always figured that after I lost weight then I would be more active in bed. The funny thing is I have all but forgotten my issues BECUASE we are more active in bed. Don't let your...
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