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    What's your safe word?

    Well, since oftentimes we enjoy having me playing the victim ( "No! Don't! Ohmygod noooo! Stop!!*struggling*" ), a safe word is totally necessary for us. Ours is "Hamburgers!" And if I'm gagged or choking, I pinch him on the ribs or thighs. I'm not supposed to hurt him generally, because he...
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    Switch is a "dirty word"?

    Arsynrose, that's a difficult position to be in. I'd imagine that everyone in a relationship makes concessions and compromises; and both of you might have to do those very things. As my name would indicate, I'm a switch. For years, I was always the dominant one in my past relationships. I...
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    Advice on strangulation

    As a person who was born with chronic asthma, I can somewhat identify. I really enjoy the feeling of his hands grasping my throat. It's pretty dangerous to put too much pressure on the throat during sex (only 5 lbs of pressure can crush the windpipe), and even though it really gets me off, we...
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    Cigarettes

    One night, my husband and I were out drinking with some new friends. I was dancing with my girls, when a handsome stranger came up to me and started to grind on me, so I played along for a minute. Ohhh this made my husband sooo angry. He grabbed my arm, jerked me down in the chair beside him and...
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    Seeking advice on how to handle my fiancé's newfound desires.

    Ok P.S.Eudonym, I've read everything in this post, top to bottom (haha no pun intended). First, just from reading your excessively worded post, I have a feeling that your submissive fiancee finds you to be rather submissive. I mean, I find you to be submissive from your words alone here. For...
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    Explaining marks?

    I have had doctors ask me about marks before, but the marks were mainly self-inflicted cuts. Usually, when they ask what happened, I just say, "I did it because I enjoy it." Of course there have been times that doctors have asked me about some pretty ugly bite marks, of hand-shaped bruises to...
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    What is your fetish?

    I'm glad to see some other people into blood play, biting, and vampirism... some of my personal interests. ;) I'd love to talk a little more about those things... My other fetishes include, but are not limited to: -Being spanked (especially by a big leather belt that snaps!) -Being made to cry...
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    How can i teach my parter to be more dominating?

    kiera26 i know exactly what you mean. I have a wonderful man, who more than satisfies my vanilla needs. ;) I know his kinks, and he knows mine. His kinks tend toward really sloppy messy sex, and mine lean toward bondage and submission, as I am a masochist. I also have a sadistic side and...
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