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    vanilla - sub relationship - can it work?

    Sebastian, I am deeply grateful for your generous, thoughtful advice. I really don't have anybody to talk to about this - a few friends I can share this sensitive issue with are all vanilla and can't provide an insider's view. So your thoughts and great ideas for further exploration are...
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    vanilla - sub relationship - can it work?

    Wow, thank you for quick and informative replies! Regarding what turns him on, he says he likes to keep his sub side in the bedroom, meaning, he doesn't like playing this role in the rest of his life. So unfortunately no free slave for me ;) Thank you also for the recommendation for the book...
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    vanilla - sub relationship - can it work?

    Hello, I am vanilla and my wonderful husband of several years is, as I just found out, a submissive. This appears to be an important part of his sexuality which he has been supressing/hiding so far for a fear of my reaction. I am very open and tolerant of his sexual preferences, I love him...
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