Recent content by TwistedSister

OK I am nothing if not thorough. After many many prospects, I think Sir and I have found someone. She is younger than we are - by too many years to count - but she is eager to learn and she is smart. A modicum of intelligence is a requirement I have found. She has come over to the house and...

I know this will vary from group to group and person to person. I would very much appreciate anyone responding with their definition of the following words (in the BDSM realm): Family Pack Sister Group Thank you much.

I stated I would continue to post. We have finally found a common ground. A new one to the scene. We both met her and new her before we realized she was interested in the lifestyle. What I am discovering is I still get pangs of envy, the thrill of assisting another in the life style is amazing...

You know how you feel when you do everything possible and things STILL do not align right? that is where I am now. From a purely logical point, if a relationship doesnt fulfill you - walk away. From a heartfelft POV that isnt so easy. In some ways BDSM has made my life easier. In others, it is...

just feel frayed .. and tired ... and confused:confused:

Well nothing like waiting a year to make progress! But it takes what it takes. I have done a lot of talking, listening, and observing. I found the root of my jealousy. I held a mirror up to it and looked long and hard. Sir I discussed many things. I had tried to find someone and I was not doing...

I am sort of on the other side of the fence ... I like breath play ... I LOVE the feeling of actually giving that control over to him. For me, it is a line of demarcation - no pun intended - it is way for me to completely give my power to him. That being said - what He told me to do was readu...

a bit of anatomy for your consideration. The colon is where the majority of your waste is held. When enough matter is present it continues down the sigmoid colon to the rectum. The rectum is about 8 inches long. It , the rectum, holds the matter (the fecal material or "shit" if you will). When...

You sound like a wonderful Master and mentor.. your slave is lucky. Best to you both.

When I finally figured out I was missing BDSM in my relationships, I began to actively find out more. I came to sites like this, and a few others. Eventually met like-minded people and got a feel for how I thought a BDSM relationship should be. After I figured all of that out, I started looking...

Hey thanks for all the comments. I actually am NOT in a 24/7 relationship. I do as another says and incorporate it into the play. It causes me just a little concerns sometimes only because I don't want Him feeling badly. I am learning that he does not feel bad, nor do I feel taken advantage of...

When I found out I liked and wanted to submit, it was my Dom who dispeled many of of the untruths that I had understood. He and I talk. And talk. Ad Nauseum. Not really, but we do talk a lot about my wants and needs. I thought that strange, because after all, I was here to serve, no? Well part...

I am really curious about how this community feels about Doms who earn less than their subs/slaves. I would like to know how y'all think about this. Is it something that may interfere? Can interfere? Does interfere? If a sub has more income than the Dom, where do the financial considerations...

*hugs* thanks

Wow ... you folks are amazing. So much of what you have stated makes sense to me. I guess it is strange that I can bare my emotional being to a room full of strangers, but damn. If not you, who? Sir and I have talked some more. I thinking meeting the other is in my best interest. Oddly...