I know for me being vulnerable was always a problem too, which is why I had always stuffed my feelings away. When I met my partner my whole outlook on things changed...I wanted to be vulnerable to him that's part of my submission and its part of me that only he has ever touched, but no one else...
Give it time, my partner and I had been together for just over a year when I decided to talk to him about just how submissive I was...like you I wanted everything straight away and like you he told me he was dominating me to make me happy which upset me as to me that wasn't the point...I was...
Thanks :)
I'm allowed to show enthusiasm and usually do ;) so I think maybe your right about the Dom drop, we live together so it could also just be a build up of tiredness, I guess either way he'll be happy with a massage and cuddles :)
Thanks again, much appreciated x
I had noticed while reading through a few threads that a few subs had problems with cramping while tied and also experiencing sub drop.
I've found yoga helpful in warding off both.
Along with the added advantage of becoming more supple i've found that i can hold strange positions for a lot...
I am new to this site and fairly new to the scene (although I always new I was sub it took me a long time to find the right partner) and my Dom is the same.
We are both very comfortable and getting more confident all the time, however, my Dom says even simple scenes take a lot out of him.
I...