Recent content by Trained

As a slave, I've never been allowed a safe word. Given the change to renegotiate, I would insist on one, but not for the reason most would think. My limits are pretty high. My owner always stops well befor my limits. I think that if I had a safe word she might be willing to go further. As...

For myself, I am generally limited by kids in the house, so things that are noisy are out. Also, things prone to leave marks and things which take long are generally only possible in rare circumstances. Nipple clamps (I have nasty weighted ones meant to hold table clothes down during windy...

Not to disagree with any of the previous posters, but I would say don't count on any of those term when talking with a potential play partner. Everyone has different ideas on what these terms mean. In some groups, there is some agreement, but you move to a different group and they have...

I am currently a consensual slave. Yep, currently it has no aspect of bondage, discipline, or sex. As a slave my life is more vanilla than most vanillas! With 20/20 hind sight, what I really am is a masochist. If I'm ever freed, I'll remember that.

Second try - I discovered I was a masochist well before I discovered sex. While the BDSM invariably makes me horny, I do see them as separate. If I had to give up one or the other, I think it would be easier to give up the sex.

Well before I started school, I was tyeing myself up and trying to get my playmates to tie me up and turture me when we were playing cowboys and indians or "I Spy". Well before I had any idea about sex!