Recent content by torris

I tend to disagree with most of the posts on this thread. One time, early in our intimate relationship, my bf went too far and had to work very hard to regain my trust. A safe word would have prevented that from happening. It can be very hard to tell the difference between a verbal protest that...

Er... I may be going out on a limb here, but it sounds to me that he's looking for you to take a more active roll in sex. Try to initiate sex more. But as for "vanilla" femdom, just majorly tone down all the BDSM stuff. Avoid the SM all together. For example, you could tease and pleasure him...

The problem with alcohol is that it impairs judgment. Its use would depend on how much you drink and how much you trust your partner. Anytime you use a substance that can be considered mood altering increases the risk of something bad happening. Be very careful.

I am a bedroom submissive. My boyfriend is loving and caring and very dominant, which I like. But sometimes, after its all over, I feel guilty about the B&D. I was raised in a home with very "traditional" views on sex but at the same time a very "women are equal to men mentality," and I feel...