Recent content by theonlyone

That's like telling a gay man or woman the same thing. 'just try harder and you can cleanse your self of your unclean thoughts'. My opinion, take a break from him. Or try finding someone to top you that can try to keep it non sexual. You cannot change who you are, God made you this way. Accept...

I can't see anyone thinking I'm in to BDSM unless they pay attention to my accessories. I have a chain braclet with a little lock on it, a belt with a large lock as the buckle and a name plate that says "mine". However if they did, I assume most would assume I top. I have a top personality in...

I actually put down Carries story for the same reasons y'all listed but a yr or so later finished it. I liked it. Definatley a little much for my taste (right now) but a good book over all. I also tried to read S of O but couldn't finish it. I ended up renting the movie on netflix so can't...

I've been where you are. Its taken a few long, uncomfortable conversations with my Husband to really get him to understand how my brain works differently than vanilla women. Before I fessed up that I wanted to try BDSM, I was having a REAL problem with my sex drive. The sex was always great [im...

Chrisincuffs... delicious...

I agree on the honesty. Im married, have known my hubby for almost 6 years and we just started playing this year. I tried hinting, but eventually had to break down and tell him that i truly enjoy pain, and want him to dominate me. Things haven't been spectacular, but its a process [i...

Tied to a table at a party where anyone and everyone can walk by and use me as they wish. Preferably blindfolded.

Don't give up hope. My Hubby and I were together 5 years or so before I got the guts to tell him what I want. I suggest telling him flat out u want to try some "rougher stuff". Some [most] guys need things spelled out. After u have been up open and honest about what u a want find a dirty story...

I would say I've been a sub from very early on. In elementry school I would play slave for my friends (crawl around the playground,let them hit me, etc.) and have since I can remember imagined being tied to my bed, tortured and left all night tied up. I didn't realize what these feelings meant...

Im rather new to SM as well, and from all the tons and tons of reading I've done I've come to believe that sexuality and the sexual [and otherwise] relationship you have with your partner cannot be based solely on what other people do. Especially in BDSM. Subbing is so very personal and [should]...

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